Hi guys I need advice from anyone out there that has my problem.I have no sex drive, I lost it a couple of years ago and only being married 2 years u can see my problem. I dread doing the deed and want it over as quickly as possible, the only way I can climax is by using my toy which is ok but my husband feels inadequate. I really never feel the urge and just do it for my hubby, I've even started to give him a set day which is not good oh and I can only do one position as that's all my legsโฆ read more
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Have him use the toy or use the toy while having sex. Win win for both.
Plan time for affection. Cuddling,kissing and hugs can lead to more desire. I seem to have lost my desire too after a long term relationship ended last summer. So since I DON'T have a partner it is just as well.
It's worth a giggle though to cheer us up if nothing else : )..
Give it a try, do you know what even if it doesn't work he will have fun and it will make you laugh xx
OK then we'll here goes haha..
Does your hubby like giving you oral sex? You don't need to actually answer that haha..
Well I've found the oral stimulation does the same as with a toy also other half gets super turned on and you could always do a 69 which is generally fine on the legs.. this then means you orgasm so male pride is intact ๐๐๐a๐and because he will be super turned on interourse doggy generally less of a problem for the legs is quicker and then both of you are winners... it's worth a try but during this relapse it seems to have worked for us xx Ps you too any help or just want to chat give me a shout xx