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Members rallied around the frustrating experience of having a spouse or family member blame falls on inattention rather than MS, offering both... Read more
That’s when I wish I could hand it off for a day to let them know what it feels like.
One finger salute!
Respond: “Oh, I didn't realize you were a neurologist specializing in neuroimmunology.
Which hospital did you say you worked at again?"
This is treating others the way they want to be treated.
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Or, attempt to have a cutting heart to heart convo! If you have and that doesn’t work:
Say this: A sphincter says what?"
a classic playground trap and a memorable quote from the 1992 movie Wayne's World, used to trick someone into saying "What?". By replying, the listener implicitly labels themselves "a sphincter". The joke relies on the victim responding to the prompt rather than waiting for a completed sentence.
Hopefully they haven’t seen the movie! If they haven’t, you’re gifting yourself some fun and making a point! 🙂
Yes, you should forgive! But when you’re being verbally abused over this then you have to do something different to get a different result! 😏🙂❤️
Your clueless learn about MS and that everyone is different in this battle
Hate to hear that someone said that you . If it is your spouse bring them with you to your doctor appointment and have your doctor tell them why you are falling . Maybe then they will understand. ❤️🙏
Does anyone have a partner/spouse who resents you and is really angry because he/she has to do more?