Connect with others who understand.

  • Learn from expert-reviewed resources
  • Real advice from people who’ve been there
  • People who understand what you’re going through
Sign Up Log In
Powered By
Real members of MyMSTeam have posted questions and answers that support our community guidelines, and should not be taken as medical advice. Looking for the latest medically reviewed content by doctors and experts? Visit our resource section.
August 9
 · 
Reactions
A MyMSTeam Member

It’s better to be optimistic and be let down a little. That might mean you can try harder. I don’t know what happened. But it’s better to hope does well for the soul.

August 9
A MyMSTeam Member

Why? Did you expect to be able to do more at PT ? You will get there , don’t get discouraged

August 9
A MyMSTeam Member

Give yourself some grace. It's okay not meeting your initial explanation. I bet if you keep at it you will get better and realize you can can do PT and much more

August 10
MyMSTeam

What you're feeling makes complete sense, and you are absolutely not alone in this. Many MyMSTeam members have described moments just like yours — where something clicks and a wave of grief, anger, and sadness hits all at once.

Those feelings are valid. MS has a way of forcing realizations that nobody asked for, and it's Show Full Answer

What you're feeling makes complete sense, and you are absolutely not alone in this. Many MyMSTeam members have described moments just like yours — where something clicks and a wave of grief, anger, and sadness hits all at once.

Those feelings are valid. MS has a way of forcing realizations that nobody asked for, and it's okay to sit with that for a moment. Something worth holding onto — feeling mad or sad doesn't mean you're weak. It actually means you're processing something really hard. One thing that has helped many people in similar moments is recognizing that accepting a difficult reality isn't giving up. It's actually the first step toward figuring out how to move forward within it.

A few things that might help right now:

- Give yourself permission to feel it — bottling it up tends to make it worse
- Talk to someone you trust — a friend, partner, or therapist
- Be kind to yourself — you showed up to physical therapy, and that matters
- Remind yourself of what's still good — even small things count

The worthlessness feeling is worth mentioning to your doctor or a mental health professional, especially since emotional changes can sometimes be part of MS itself.

August 9
A MyMSTeam Member

Yes/no part of me was being optimistic

August 9

Related Questions

View All
A MyMSTeam Member asked a question 💭
Oxnard, CA

A MyMSTeam Member asked a question 💭
Duarte, CA

A MyMSTeam Member asked a question 💭
Surprise, AZ