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Independent Living With MS: 6 Resources for Home Care

Updated on July 24, 2026

Key Takeaways

  • Many people living with multiple sclerosis (MS) have concerns about maintaining their independence, and there are a variety of home support resources that can help.
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Maintaining independence is a concern for many people with multiple sclerosis (MS). And everyone needs a little help sometimes.

“I see the word ‘independence’ written in a lot of messages on here. ‘Independence’ is great, but you’ve got to take what help is available,” one member said. “It could be a walking stick or a walker or someone asking if you need some groceries. Taking that help doesn’t mean you have failed at being independent. It means you are giving yourself a break.”

If maintaining independence is important to you, it’s a good idea to learn about home support for MS. Here are some resources for independent living and MS home care.

1. Grocery Delivery

Several MyMSTeam members have mentioned that grocery shopping is a challenge.

One member wrote, “I gave up grocery shopping and do curbside pickup. I used to dread it so much, hanging on to the cart, huffing and puffing to get through it.”

Grocery shopping can take a lot of mental and physical energy. It may require crowds, long lines, heavy bags, and a long trip through the store. Grocery delivery or curbside pickup can ease some of that burden.

Many supermarkets offer online ordering for delivery or pickup. Options may include:

  • Local grocery stores
  • Store websites
  • Mobile apps
  • Third-party delivery services

Shop around a bit: Some stores and delivery services may offer discounts or free delivery, depending on your order or whether you’re a first-time customer.

If you don’t want all your groceries delivered, some companies deliver specialty, bulk, shelf-stable, or frozen food items. Ordering some of your food can shorten grocery trips because you’ll already have some items at home.

Examples may include:

  • Amazon — You can buy canned goods, snacks, cereal, and other food items for delivery.
  • Omaha Steaks — You can find beef, chicken, pork, seafood packages, appetizers, and desserts available for delivery.
  • Walmart — You can order some everyday essentials, including pet food and paper goods, for shipping, delivery, or curbside pickup.

Depending on your local program’s criteria, you may also qualify for meal delivery through Meals on Wheels America. This national nonprofit organization provides nutritious prepared foods, primarily to older adults who meet certain eligibility criteria.

Eligibility often includes adults 60 and older with mobility challenges that make it hard to shop for food, prepare meals, or socialize. Age rules, costs, and services may vary by area and provider. You can search your ZIP code online to see what’s offered near you.

2. Transportation Services

People with MS may begin to worry about driving, due to either physical disability or cognitive impairments (problems with thinking and memory).

One member shared, “My mom is concerned about my reaction time. She never lets me drive. But the Department of Rehabilitation will adapt your vehicle if necessary, so all the controls are on the steering wheel if needed.”

Finding alternative transportation resources can also help you stay independent. The Eldercare Locator is part of the U.S. Administration for Community Living, which assists older adults and their loved ones.

You can call 800-677-1116 to speak with a mobility manager who will help you find transportation services in your area. The locator’s helpline is open on weekdays from 9 a.m. to 8 p.m. Eastern time.

Examples of the types of resources you may find include:

  • Paratransit — Offers door-to-door service that coincides with fixed public transportation routes
  • Volunteer driver programs — Provide transportation for doctor appointments, shopping, and other activities
  • Taxi or transportation vouchers — Reduce the cost of taxi services or other transportation for those who meet eligibility criteria

You can also ask for help signing up for a ride-sharing service, such as Uber or Lyft, or navigating your community’s public transportation system.

3. Home Modifications

Home modifications can help promote independence. They can range from low-cost changes to larger projects.

Simple changes may include:

  • Removing loose rugs
  • Rearranging furniture for clearer pathways
  • Adding grab bars in bathrooms
  • Using brighter lighting
  • Replacing doorknobs with pull handles

Larger changes may include:

  • Lowering countertops and light switches for someone using a wheelchair
  • Installing a wheelchair ramp, roll-in shower, or stair lift
  • Widening doorways

An occupational therapist or rehabilitation specialist can help match changes to your current needs and future mobility needs.

You can ask your mortgage lender about using home equity to help fund renovations. Many contractors offer financing options, although interest rates and repayment terms vary.

You can also reach out to nonprofits such as Rebuilding Together, an organization that works in various communities to provide essential home repairs.

4. Caregivers

Hiring a caregiver can help you maintain your independence and stay at home longer. Caregivers may assist with personal care like toileting and bathing, as well as help with homemaker tasks like cooking and cleaning. You can hire a home care provider directly or use an agency to find the right fit.

Sometimes, private health insurance companies help with payment. Other times, government programs like Medicaid or Medicare will cover some of the costs. Ask your healthcare professional to refer you to a social worker who can guide you through the process and evaluate your options.

MS-focused nonprofits may also be a starting point for vetted information about in-home care providers, respite care, and caregiver support programs.

5. Social-Emotional Support

Mental health is just as important as physical well-being with MS. Everyone has good days and bad days, but a network of support can help keep you afloat when challenges arise.

Staying close to family, friends, community resources, and healthcare services can support independence at home. You can find support by getting a referral to a therapist or support group through your healthcare provider.

If you’re a member of a religious community or affiliated with other community-based groups, make an effort to maintain those connections. Don’t be afraid to reach out for help when you need it. Thinking of ways to contribute and support others in return helps you build a balanced give-and-take relationship.

Online support groups offer another option, especially if you’re having trouble finding others nearby who can relate to what you’re going through.

6. Service Dogs

Some people with MS choose to get a service dog for practical help and companionship. Under the Americans With Disabilities Act (ADA), a service animal is a dog that is trained to do work or tasks for a person with a disability.

The nonprofit Assistance Dogs International can help you search for accredited service dog programs. A service dog may help you by:

  • Assisting with balance and ambulation
  • Barking to call for help in an emergency
  • Closing and opening doors
  • Pulling your wheelchair
  • Retrieving an item that’s out of reach
  • Turning lights on or off

“I trained my own stability-mobility dog for on the ranch and in public,” one member said. “Having her help me stabilize on uneven ground, walking out to the barn, and going up steps and ramps is becoming a must. She also helps me get up off the couch or out of a chair if needed.”

The ADA doesn’t require service dogs to be professionally trained, and people with disabilities have the right to train the dog themselves. The ADA also doesn’t require service animals to be certified as service animals.

Independent living with MS can be challenging, but the right plan and support can help. Everyone’s experience with MS is different, so it’s important to work with a healthcare professional to develop a plan that works for you.

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