Is anyone online? I really need to talk to someone. I got a message from someone who used to be good friend of mine years ago. Out of the blue. Kept asking about my health, I figured she was up to something and heard something. Told her I have MS but all else is good. She then started saying I made the disease up to burden my family, that I am a leach, a loser... and then ended with "move out and if you want to die then die already."
ICK! Definitely not someone I'd recommend listening to. Hurt people hurt people. But it's our choice to continue to engage or not. A big part of my healing journey was learning to have stronger boundaries with people who previously took advantage of my generous heart and easy-going accepting nature. I've cut a number of people out of my life in the past few years and I can honestly say I don't miss them at all! There are several MS.UNDERSTOOD podcast episodes on this topic that include helpful strategies if that interests you. 🧡
Are you sure he hasn't been hacked and it's not really your friend?
Forgiveness will be more helpful to you than not forgiving. So I suggest to forgive your friend and don't let it fester in your belly. I have similar experiences.
Why even concern yourself with someone who would say such a ridiculous and horrible thing? No one needs someone like that in their life. Block her, delete her and don't give her another thought. If you're feeling mean you could tell her you first.😅
Sure glad tha you blocked that person. They need to go off by themselves. We need to lift people up not make their life miserable. That was just plain mean!