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December 10, 2023
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A MyMSTeam Member

I've had this M.S. stuff since 2016 and many are out.I think conditions applied to you give them a reason to blame you as they leave because it quietly scares the spit out of them to pretend to be strong.

December 10, 2023
A MyMSTeam Member

Mostly because the way they treat you is a reflection of their problems and has nothing to do with you. Be strong. I have lost people I was getting to know because they didn’t understand my limitations were ms related and not personally related to them. Be sad for the person who can’t understand…. But only to a certain point. You must take care of yourself and no apologies to anyone. I’m sorry you are losing a friend but it sounds like a healthy decision for you. Some of this person’s beliefs sound twisted and God is a loving God.

December 11, 2023
A MyMSTeam Member

PamelaToohey, I know of their history and I do understand and feel terrible for how bad it was for them while growing up. They dealt with abuse since birth and they are still suffering from all the drama. I feel they deal with it by transferring the pain they feel over to me. They blame me and try to hurt me as much as possible. They have told me I'm useless, that Noone cares about if I'm alive or not, that I'm some other type of person and I'm no good. Even that no one cares about my health issues. They have just as many. I know down deep they need someone to be there for them but it isn't no longer healthy for me. I feel it could go to a dangerous place. All I can do is pray 🙏 for their peace and hope they can realize we are not the ones who hurt them. That they could trust again.

December 11, 2023
A MyMSTeam Member

CherylCrawn, I truly don't understand why we get treated that way. I say we because it happened to me as well. Needless to say I left 2022. I live with my sister now. Now Im living for God.🤗❤🙏 I will say a prayer for you for it to get better.

December 10, 2023
A MyMSTeam Member

This sounds like their permanent personality flaw now. If you can't make their voice SHUT UP, maybe they need SHUT OUT

December 11, 2023

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