It sounds like there might be a question about how MS affects sex and intimacy — it's a topic that many people with MS wonder about but don't always feel comfortable bringing up. You're definitely not alone!
Sexual changes are incredibly common with MS. Up to 72% of women and 91% of men with MS report changes in their sex Show Full Answer
It sounds like there might be a question about how MS affects sex and intimacy — it's a topic that many people with MS wonder about but don't always feel comfortable bringing up. You're definitely not alone!
Sexual changes are incredibly common with MS. Up to 72% of women and 91% of men with MS report changes in their sex lives. This happens because MS affects the nervous system, which plays a big role in sexual function. There are three main ways MS can impact intimacy:
- Direct nerve damage — MS lesions can interrupt signals between the brain and sexual organs, affecting arousal and orgasm
- MS symptoms getting in the way — things like spasticity, incontinence, or fatigue can make sex physically difficult
- Psychological impact — feeling unwell or self-conscious can reduce desire altogether
Common issues include difficulty reaching orgasm, erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, loss of sensation, or low libido. The good news is there are ways to work through these challenges:
- Talk to your neurologist — they're trained to understand how MS affects the body in every way, including sexually
- Use lubricants — water-based lubricants can help with dryness (avoid petroleum-based products)
- Try sex aids — vibrators or other toys can help with sensitivity issues
- Communicate with your partner — openness goes a long way
As one MyMSTeam member put it, *"Use a lot of stimulation, foreplay, imagination, and patience."* In rare cases, some people with MS experience the opposite — an increase in sex drive, sometimes called hypersexuality. If sexual urges feel uncontrollable or are interfering with daily life, that's worth discussing with a healthcare provider too.
There's no shame in bringing any of this up with your care team — they've heard it all before! 😊
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