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New Brockton, AL

I find out about how many of you have foot drop, are unable to walk ( are in a wheelchair), or need a care giver because of MS; and sometimes I feel a little guilty. Because I can still walk and definitely do not have foot drop and can take care of myself . I have quite a bit of compassion and empathy for other MSers too that are worse off than me! But where does this occasional GUILT come from??

August 2
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Members explored the question of whether feeling guilty about having a milder MS experience is the right response, with most agreeing that... Read more

Members explored the question of whether feeling guilty about having a milder MS experience is the right response, with most agreeing that guilt is not the right word and that empathy and gratitude fit better. Several members shared personal journeys ranging from still walking independently to using rollators, wheelchairs, or relying on caregivers, reminding each other that MS looks different for everyone and can change at any time. A recurring theme was the importance of supporting one another, staying grateful for current abilities, and showing up for the community no matter where you are in your journey.

A MyMSTeam Member

Never "guilt" per se. I used to feel bad going to MS sponsered events,when others were doing worse than I. It was explained to me that I needed to show up. It gave newly dxd a different (positive) outlook on MS.

August 2
A MyMSTeam Member

No I don't feel guilty because everyone who has MS is different. They told me 30 years ago I'd be in a wheelchair. I walk on a cane. I praise God for all the blessings we are not asked to face.🙏🤗🌺

August 5
A MyMSTeam Member

I do not feel guilty for being better than others. I also don't feel guilty having homecare workers 8 hours every day. MS is what it is and we all have to use the resources the best we can.

August 3
A MyMSTeam Member

I personally wouldn’t use the word guilt, but I would say I feel sad, empathetic or compassion for anyone who is sick or struggling with any type of disease.

August 2
A MyMSTeam Member

No I never feel guilty. I've had drop foot, been in a wheelchair, muscle atrophy, went blind in my right eye. That vaccine. April 2021 first dose, May 2nd dose, then June is when my world exploded. I have worked extremely hard to get myself back to this point. I know where I was. Where I been. And where I'm from. I'm fuckin proud. 🤘🙏❤️

August 2

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