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A MyMSTeam Member asked a question πŸ’­
Orlando, FL

Has anyone felt like you just cant take another step or solve another problem. Answering a phone call is just to taxing. To think of anything else after days of physical or mentally doing a lot. I find myself just sitting quietly or just watching my favorite throwback show its a rest period. Doing puzzles and word finds help just quiet the mind. Sleeping for hours, taking naps because I feel just exhausted after just waking up. It’s funny yet not, because when I think of what I’ve done it… read more

August 15
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A MyMSTeam Member

Thanks guys this really helps, recognizing literally we have to take day by day without the guilt 🧑. @MyMSTeam users... .

August 17
MyMSTeam

What you're describing is something so many people with MS know deeply β€” that bone-tired, brain-drained exhaustion that doesn't match what you've "done" on paper. You are absolutely not alone in this. πŸ’™

A MyMSTeam member described it perfectly: "It's almost as if you're wearing a heavy comforter made of tiredness. It's Show Full Answer

What you're describing is something so many people with MS know deeply β€” that bone-tired, brain-drained exhaustion that doesn't match what you've "done" on paper. You are absolutely not alone in this. πŸ’™

A MyMSTeam member described it perfectly: "It's almost as if you're wearing a heavy comforter made of tiredness. It's heavy... but you can't do anything about it."

Another said: "When I hit the wall, it feels as though my battery is drained" β€” and once it's gone, pushing through can actually make things worse. Your instincts β€” quiet time, throwback shows, puzzles β€” are actually really solid coping strategies. Here are some things that help others manage:

- Schedule rest intentionally β€” build recovery time between tasks, not just after crashing
- Spread out demanding tasks over several days rather than clustering them
- Simplify where possible β€” frozen meals, delegating chores, saying no to non-essentials
- Morning cardio (even 15 minutes) and staying hydrated can help with mental fog
- Reduce distractions during tasks to conserve mental energy

The 3-5 day recovery is real and valid. Talking to your neurologist about fatigue management strategies is always worth it too.

August 15
A MyMSTeam Member

@A MyMSTeam Member yes, I planted a strawberry plant yesterday, had to completely empty a big lovely pot first etc, so am totally out of everything today!
I've been snoozing in bed with my favourite Sanctuary radio station playing, and now it's lunchtime. I don't feel sad, guilty about how I feel.
I no longer think of it as Crashing.
I totally agree with @A MyMSTeam Member.
It's ok.
If my arm was broken I would rest it.
I regard this time as my MS and my body both agreeing to rest.
I hope that everyone finds
rest in however they choose to spend their downtime, then be able again to enjoy the good times in their days πŸ™πŸ‘‹πŸ™‚πŸ™

August 15
A MyMSTeam Member

@A MyMSTeam Member I'm wishing you well! Us Heathers are a resilient lot - try to get through each day as it arrives, and remember No Guilt!
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August 18
A MyMSTeam Member

I, sit and watch TV o

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